Contrasting Lifestyles: Living by the Spirit

One of the defining characteristics of a follower of Jesus is being led by the Holy Spirit. A Spirit-led person will live differently from someone driven by the flesh. If there’s no noticeable difference between our lives and the lives of those who don’t follow Jesus, something is wrong. We may not be truly living under the Spirit’s guidance.

To understand what motivates us, we need to be able to recognize the difference between a life driven by the flesh and a life directed by the Spirit. The apostle Paul helps us do this by describing the “fruit” produced by each way of living.

In Galatians 5:19–21 (CSB), Paul lists the obvious works of the flesh:

sexual immorality, moral impurity, promiscuity, idolatry, sorcery, hatreds, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambitions, dissensions, factions, envy, drunkenness, carousing, and anything similar.

Then he gives a sobering warning—those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

But Paul doesn’t leave us there. He goes on to describe the fruit of a Spirit-led life:

“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” (Galatians 5:22-23, CSB)

There is no law that stands against these things, because they reflect God’s character and His desires for His people. Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, Paul says, we should keep in step with the Spirit—avoiding conceit, provoking one another, and envy.

When Paul calls the works of the flesh “obvious,” he means they clearly oppose the law of love Jesus gave His followers. Instead of putting others first, the flesh focuses inward. It seeks what we want, when we want it, without regard for God or others.

This is why examining our motivations matters. Are we acting out of self-interest, or out of a desire to honor God and serve others? Our natural instinct is to choose ourselves. Sacrifice does not come easily, and without the Spirit’s help, we drift toward selfishness.

The Spirit’s Fruit (vv. 22–23)

When we are led by the Spirit, Paul says, “there is no law against such things.” The Spirit becomes our compass, guiding us into God’s will. The fruit of the Spirit isn’t a checklist—it’s the evidence of a life shaped by God.

When love fills our actions, when peace rules our hearts, when kindness flows out of us—these are signs that the Spirit is at work. A Spirit-led life looks radically different from a life centered on self.

So ask yourself:

• Can you describe your life using these qualities?
• Are you motivated by love for others?
• Do you experience joy and peace?
• Are patience and kindness growing in you?

A Spirit-led life will produce Spirit-shaped fruit.

Walking by the Spirit (vv. 24–26)

Paul reminds us that those who belong to Jesus have crucified the flesh. Through Christ, the power of sinful desires has been broken—but we must continually surrender to Him. Without surrender, we lack the strength to resist the flesh, and the Spirit’s voice becomes increasingly faint.

The walk of the Spirit begins with surrender.

Consider these questions:

• Have you surrendered to Jesus?
• Are you more committed to God’s will than your own desires?
• Are you willing to remove distractions so you can hear the Spirit clearly?

There should be a clear contrast between the lives of Jesus’ followers and the world around them. Not because we are more disciplined or morally strong, but because we are committed to being led by the Spirit. As we surrender to His guidance, the Spirit leads us away from the passions of the flesh and toward the life God created us to live.

Point to Ponder:

Is the fruit of the Spirit increasingly visible in your life?

Question to Consider:

What is one area where you need to surrender more fully to the Spirit today?

Paul’s Ponderings is a blog dedicated to reflecting on Scripture and encouraging believers to live out their faith with love and purpose.

Living in Light, Love, and Truth: Living with Eternal Life

1 John 5:13–21

If you pull out a dollar bill, you’ll see four familiar words printed on the back: “In God We Trust.” It’s our national motto. We print it on our money. We claim it as part of our identity.

But according to the latest General Social Survey, those four words no longer describe the way most Americans actually live. When people were asked how confident they were that God really exists, only 50%—just half—said they believe in God without any doubts. Thirty years ago that number was 65%, and it’s been sliding ever since. Among young adults the shift is even more dramatic: only 36% now say they are certain God exists.

So we live in a country where our currency declares trust in God, but our culture increasingly doesn’t know whether God is even there. Doubt is growing. Fear is growing. Confusion is growing.

Which raises a deeper question: Where does real confidence come from?

According to the apostle John, confidence doesn’t come from slogans or cultural heritage. It certainly doesn’t come from our feelings. Confidence comes from a Person—Jesus—and what He has already done for us. In his final words of 1 John, John reminds the church what they can know with certainty. And these same truths anchor us today.

We Can Be Confident That We Have Eternal Life

(1 John 5:13–15)

John tells us exactly why he wrote this letter: “so that you may know that you have eternal life.” We don’t have to guess. We don’t have to wonder. We don’t have to live in spiritual uncertainty.

How can we know? John points to two essential realities:

1. Our faith in King Jesus, the unique Son of God.
2. Our love for God and for one another.

Faith and love aren’t abstract ideas—they’re evidence of new life. And because we belong to God, we also have confidence in prayer. When our allegiance is aligned with Jesus, our desires begin to reflect God’s desires. We pray according to His will, and John assures us: God hears us. As a Father, He gives what we need, even if it looks different than what we asked for.

Eternal life isn’t a future prize; it’s a present reality. And it brings confidence.

We Can Be Confident That Sin Is Evil—and That God Rescues Us From It

(1 John 5:16–19)

John turns next to one of the more challenging passages in his letter—praying for those caught in sin.

There are sins that lead to repentance, where guilt and sorrow eventually draw someone back to God. These we should pray for boldly. But John also acknowledges a deeper, more hardened rebellion—willful rejection of God, the kind embraced by the false teachers troubling the early church. Their hearts were closed to the Spirit. Prayer for them may not change their course.

Why is this important? Because confidence in God awakens seriousness about sin. Followers of Jesus don’t make sin a lifestyle. We confess our sins. We seek forgiveness. We fight against temptation because God’s love has taken hold of us.

John contrasts two spiritual realities:

1. We are God’s children, shaped by His love, Spirit, and Word.
2. The world lies under the influence of the evil one, shaped by the spirit of anti-Christ.

So we remain alert. Confident—but not careless.

We Can Be Confident About Jesus—The True God and Eternal Life

(1 John 5:20–21)

John closes with clarity: Jesus has given us the fullest revelation of God. The Old Testament gave glimpses of God through the law, but Jesus shows us God’s heart through love. And because of Him, we can have a genuine relationship with God—walking in love, faith, and loyalty to King Jesus.

This fuller knowledge of God leads to one final command:

“Dear children, keep yourselves from idols.”

Idols aren’t just statues. They’re false ideas of God. Distorted pictures of Jesus. Voices that seduce our loyalty away from the King—just as the temples and false teachers tried to sway the early church.

Confidence in Jesus means refusing all competing allegiances.

Living With Eternal Life Today

John ends his letter like a loving spiritual father—reminding us what is true, what can be trusted, and how we should live. Our world may be confused about God, but we don’t need to be.

Following King Jesus gives us the confidence we need to live faithfully in this world.

And this kind of life—rooted in clarity, loyalty, and trust—is exactly what our world needs to see.

A Simple Challenge for This Week

Choose one concrete step of confidence:

• Pray boldly for someone who is struggling. 
• Confess a sin you’ve been tolerating.
• Silence a voice that is pulling you from the truth. 
• Open your Bible each morning and ask God to deepen your trust.

Live like someone who truly has eternal life—not someday, but now.

Final Thought

If you are in Christ, you are not meant to drift through life uncertain, anxious, or spiritually unstable. You are meant to stand firm, pray boldly, resist sin faithfully, love sincerely, and worship wholeheartedly. Reject every idol that competes for your allegiance.

Remain with Jesus. Trust Him. Follow Him.

And you will shine with a confidence this world has forgotten—but desperately needs to see.

Paul’s Ponderings is a blog dedicated to reflecting on Scripture and encouraging believers to live out their faith with love and purpose.

Sunday Prayer: A Life of Joy, Prayer, and Thanksgiving

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of life in Christ Jesus, and for the clear direction You give us in Your Word. Teach us to rejoice always, not because our circumstances are perfect, but because You are faithful, present, and unchanging. Open our eyes to see Your goodness in both the ordinary and the difficult moments.

Help us to pray constantly—to turn every worry into a conversation with You, every decision into a moment of seeking Your wisdom, and every joy into an expression of praise. Draw our hearts into continual communion with You, so that prayer becomes our first response rather than our last resort.

Shape us into people who give thanks in everything, trusting that You are at work even when we cannot see it. Fill us with gratitude that steadies our hearts, softens our attitudes, and aligns us with Your will.

Lord, may this way of living—rejoicing, praying, and giving thanks—become our daily practice, because this is Your will for us in Christ Jesus. By Your Spirit, make it real in us.

In Jesus’ name, amen.

Paul’s Ponderings is a blog dedicated to reflecting on Scripture and encouraging believers to live out their faith with love and purpose.

Will I Be Punished If I’m Angry at God?

Recently I saw this question asked: Will I be punished if I’m angry at God?

This is a great question, and one that many believers wrestle with quietly. All of us—whether we admit it or not—have felt anger toward God at some point. Maybe He didn’t show up when we expected Him to. Maybe He allowed a painful experience we desperately wanted Him to prevent. God gets blamed for a lot, even by people who claim not to believe in Him. There is far more anger toward God in this world than we realize.

Let me approach the question in two parts.

1. Will God punish me for being angry with Him?

When we reduce following Jesus to sin-management, we become overly focused on what God might do to us if we step out of line. I’ve been there myself. Something goes wrong and my first instinct is, “Is God punishing me for something I did?”

That kind of thinking is exactly what Job’s friends brought into his suffering—“You must have sinned, or this wouldn’t be happening.” But Scripture consistently pushes back against that view of God.

Here’s the problem with that way of thinking: When we fixate on punishment, we stop focusing on trust.

We start living as though God is a strict judge waiting to catch us messing up. And ironically, the more we see God that way, the more angry with Him we become. It creates a cycle of fear, guilt, and resentment.

But the grace of God gives us room to grow. Are we going to sin? Yes. We’ve been trained by years of habits and broken desires. But God has already promised forgiveness in Christ. That means we are free to move forward, to repent, to learn, to trust, and to walk with confidence—not dread.

People who fear punishment often ask, “What must I avoid?”

People who trust God ask, “How can I draw closer to Him?”

Our job, especially as we walk with others, is to help them see God not as Someone out to get them but as Someone who deeply loves them. It’s only when we begin to trust God’s heart that anger toward Him begins to soften—and the fear of punishment fades.

2. Is it okay to be angry with God?

I’m not sure I can say it’s “okay,” but I can say with confidence that God allows it.

Scripture itself gives us the language of lament. Psalms 6, 35, 102, and many others show people crying out to God in frustration, disappointment, confusion, even outrage. Life wasn’t going the way they thought it should, and God seemed disturbingly silent.

God allows our anger because He knows how limited our understanding is. We see only a tiny corner of the full picture—our moment of pain, our unmet desires, our unanswered questions. God sees the whole story: our past, our future, and the ripple effects of every decision through history.

So anger toward God is often the natural response of a limited creature wrestling with unlimited mystery.

But there is a condition: Our anger must be paired with a commitment to trust.


Doubt and anger can lead us either toward God or away from Him.

• A person who is angry at God and refuses to worship or trust Him is moving into dangerous territory. That anger turns into bitterness, isolation, and spiritual darkness.
• But the person who is angry and still chooses to worship—who vents their pain before God but refuses to walk away—will eventually see God’s faithfulness. That person has chosen trust over understanding.

A personal word

This question is personal for me. I’ve been angry with God because I felt alone. At times, I refused to worship. And the longer I stayed in that posture, the darker my heart became. I felt trapped in a hopeless situation with no way out.


But slowly—very slowly—my anger began to melt as I chose to worship, even when nothing made sense. 

Before I met my wife, one of the biggest struggles I had was being single. This was a constant point of anger and disappointment I had with God. It was when I began to intentionally move towards God in worship and prayer that I realized that being single in a world built for couples wasn’t a punishment. And if I trusted God, perhaps one day He might provide companionship in a way that was richer than anything I could imagine.

Don’t get me wrong, I still don’t understand why some prayers go unanswered. I still have moments of anger. But I’ve committed to trusting God, and when I fix my eyes on Him, the anger fades and I begin to see goodness again.

So what about punishment?

Being miserable and alone is not a punishment for being angry at God.

But refusing to trust God can feel like punishment.

When we cling to anger without surrender, we create our own darkness.

But when we bring our anger to God with open hands and a trusting heart, we discover a life worth living—even when we don’t understand everything that happens.

God is not waiting to punish you.

He is waiting for you to trust Him.

Paul’s Ponderings is a blog dedicated to reflecting on Scripture and encouraging believers to live out their faith with love and purpose.

Joy That Remains

“I have told you these things so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow!”

— John 15:11 (NLT)

We often confuse joy with happiness. Happiness is fragile because it depends on circumstances. It comes and goes with the rise and fall of our comfort, our success, or our sense of security. When life goes our way, we’re happy. When it doesn’t, happiness quickly fades.

Joy, however, is something entirely different. It runs deeper than emotion. Joy doesn’t come from what’s happening around us, but from who is living within us. It’s a gift from God, rooted in our relationship with Jesus Christ.

When Jesus spoke the words recorded in John 15, He was preparing His disciples for sorrow and confusion. The cross was coming. Their world would soon fall apart. Yet, right there in the middle of that looming darkness, Jesus spoke about joy—His joy. “I have told you these things,” He said, “so that you will be filled with my joy.”

That’s an incredible promise. The joy Jesus gives isn’t something we have to create or maintain by our own effort. It’s something He places within us through His Spirit. It’s His joy shared with us—the same joy that sustained Him through the cross, the same joy that flows from His unbroken relationship with the Father.

In other words, Christian joy doesn’t ignore pain or pretend everything is fine. Instead, it faces hardship honestly but with confidence that God is still good, still faithful, and still at work. Joy remembers that the story isn’t over yet. It trusts that resurrection always follows the cross.

 That’s why Nehemiah could tell God’s people, “Don’t be dejected and sad, for the joy of the Lord is your strength!” (Nehemiah 8:10, NLT). When we are weary and uncertain, joy gives us strength to keep going. When fear rises, joy reminds us of God’s unchanging presence. When hope feels small, joy rekindles the flame.

The Apostle Paul echoed this same truth in his letter to the Thessalonian church:

“Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.”

— 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 (NLT)

Paul’s words remind us that joy isn’t something we wait to feel—it’s something we practice. He invites us to cultivate three habits that sustain joy: 

• Always be joyful — Choose to rest in God’s goodness even when life is hard. 
• Never stop praying — Keep your heart connected to the Source of joy. 
• Be thankful in all circumstances — Remember that God’s grace is still present, even in the struggle. 

These three practices—joy, prayer, and gratitude—work together to keep our hearts strong in every season. They’re not about ignoring reality; they’re about remembering that God is greater than what we face.

Lately, I’ve been reminded of this truth a lot. I know people who are dealing with health issues and others who are facing end of life realities. I know of people who are facing financial difficulties and others who walking through job losses. There are many people I am connected to whose future feels uncertain. It would be easy to let fear or discouragement take over. But in moments like these, God invites us to return to His joy—the kind that doesn’t depend on the economy, circumstances, or control, but on Christ’s faithful presence.

When we stay close to Jesus, His joy becomes our strength. When we pray together, give thanks together, and care for one another, His joy fills our hearts and reminds us that we are not alone.

True joy remains because Christ remains. And because He remains, we can face tomorrow with confidence and peace.


Prayer:

Father, thank You for the joy that never fades, even when life feels uncertain. Help us to rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in every circumstance. Teach us to remain in Jesus, to draw our strength from His presence, and to trust that You are working for our good. Fill us with Your peace and renew our joy today. Amen.

Paul’s Ponderings is a blog dedicated to reflecting on Scripture and encouraging believers to live out their faith with love and purpose.