One of the phenomena that we have seen with the rise of internet based media (from blogs to social media to YouTube to Podcasts) is that anyone with an internet connection is able to voice their opinion.
Since the United States protects the freedom of speech, Americans have adopted the idea of giving everyone a voice as a primary value. One way we see this value in our culture is through the declaration that "voting as a sacred duty." Voting, people say, is an opportunity to "let your voice be heard."
The major problem of giving everyone a voice is that opinions are not equally valid.
We hold a variety of opinions, but often those opinions are formed with either insufficient or faulty data. Very few of our dearly held opinions and beliefs are adopted through extensive research. Rather, we simply believed what a trusted source told us.
This reality should make us humble and guide the way we share our opinions.
We should be humble when it comes to our beliefs, but that is not how things works in the real world.
Our experience with social media shows us that humility is often absent in the sharing of ideas, beliefs, and opinions.
It is difficult for us to accept the possibility that we may be wrong about an issue.
The reason we hold the opinions and beliefs that we do is because we believe those beliefs are true. These are the ideas that form our world view.
It is no wonder why many of us take a stance of certainty rather than humility. We are worried that if we are wrong on this one point, we may be wrong about our entire belief system.
A problem that is attached to a stance of certainty is that we are unable to listen to what others say. Instead of hearing what others say, we will call anyone who disagrees with us "ignorant" or "foolish."
In other words, we do not extend to others the respect of being heard. This is a respect they are due because they are people created in the image of God.
Not listening to another person is improper conduct for a follower of Jesus.
Proverbs 11:2 reads; “Pride leads to disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” (NLT)
Do you want to be wise?
The price tag for wisdom is humility.
You have to understand, regardless of your education level or how much you have read, that there are huge gaps in your understanding.
The reality is that ALL of us are ignorant about most everything in the world.
Be willing to admit that you could be wrong about what you believe.
In the book of James, the brother of Jesus wrote:
“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires. So get rid of all the filth and evil in your lives, and humbly accept the word God has planted in your hearts, for it has the power to save your souls.”
James 1:19-21 (NLT)James identified the essential action for gaining knowledge and growing in wisdom: “be quick to listen.”
We love to offer our opinion.
We don’t enjoy remaining silent long enough to hear the thoughts of another person.
It is true that we may pretend to be polite by being quiet, but the reality is our mind is at work creating our next argument. Too often we do this based on an assumption of what is being said, rather than what the other person is actually saying.
This type of behavior is toxic for a civil society. We are able to see the consequences of this behavior all around us. I believe it is one of the reasons why the United States feels deeply divided. We lack the humility to examine what other people have to offer.
Without humility we will not give other people a fair hearing, and we will continue to move forward based on our assumptions rather than discovering what is actually true.