Showing posts with label Ministry. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ministry. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 8, 2025

Clarity: How Should We Think about Gender?


Part of the Clarity Series: Building a Christian Worldview


In this Clarity series, we’re building a Christian worldview to help us navigate life’s toughest topics. So far, we’ve explored spiritual warfare, the Bible’s trustworthiness, the relationship between science and faith, political identity, the End Times, and biblical morality.


Today, we turn to a topic that shapes relationships, culture, and the church: How should we think about gender?


The Big Idea:

God’s desire is for men and women to work together in unity for His Kingdom, reflecting His image in partnership.


The Lens of Our Worldview

Imagine a builder tasked with constructing a magnificent house. He’s given blueprints and tools but decides to ignore the plans and follow his own instincts. The result? A structure far from the original vision—distorted and incomplete.


That’s what happens when we ignore God’s Word, the blueprint for life. The Bible is a gift from God to help us know Him, understand His will, and build a worldview that reflects His character. Even when we disagree, a shared biblical foundation unifies us and anchors us in truth.


Gender might not seem like a “difficult” topic at first glance, but it deeply affects how we approach marriage, leadership, relationships, identity, and church life. If we want clarity, we must understand:

• God’s design for men and women,
• how sin distorted that design, and
• how the Gospel restores it.


God’s Design for Gender

To think clearly about gender, we begin in Genesis—with creation.


1. Created in God’s Image (Genesis 1:26–28)

Both men and women are made in the image of God, called to reflect His character and co-rule over creation. Masculinity and femininity are not opposites—they are complementary expressions of God’s nature. Together, they reveal God more fully than either could alone.


2. A Helper and a Partner (Genesis 2:18–25)

When God created Eve, He called her a “helper” fit for Adam. The Hebrew word for “helper” (ezer) is also used of God aiding His people—far from a lesser role, it signifies strength and necessity. The word translated “rib” can also mean “side,” suggesting a unity of two halves. Marriage, in this context, becomes a reunion—man and woman joined together for a common purpose.


3. The Fracture of Sin (Genesis 3:16)

Sin distorted God’s good design. Instead of partnership, domination entered the picture—men ruling over women, and women longing for the unity that was lost. Throughout Scripture, we see the effects of this distortion in stories like Hagar’s, Tamar’s, and countless others. Women are often portrayed not as rebellious, but as victims of broken systems.


Restoration Through the Gospel

The good news of the Gospel doesn’t just reconcile us to God—it begins restoring what sin shattered, including relationships between men and women.


1. Invitation to Discipleship (Luke 10:38–42)

Jesus welcomed women like Mary of Bethany as disciples—something radical in His cultural context. He didn’t relegate women to support roles. He invited them to learn, lead, and participate fully in the Kingdom mission (Luke 8:1–3).


2. Partners in the Mission (Romans 16)

Paul’s ministry depended on both men and women. Of the 28 people mentioned in Romans 16, 10 are women—including Phoebe, a deacon; Priscilla, a teacher; and Junia, possibly an apostle. These women weren’t footnotes—they were central to the Gospel’s expansion.


3. Unity in Christ (Galatians 3:28)

In Christ, “there is no male and female.” This doesn’t erase differences—it removes hierarchy and exclusion. The early church welcomed women into leadership, learning, and even martyrdom. As Rodney Stark points out in The Rise of Christianity, women often outnumbered men in the early church, holding influence in both public witness and house churches.


The Big Idea: Unity in God’s Kingdom

God created men and women to reflect His image together. Sin fractured this partnership, introducing dominance and marginalization. But through Jesus, God restores His design—inviting men and women to serve as equal partners in Kingdom work.


We must not overlook anyone’s contributions based on gender, race, or social status. In God’s Kingdom, every gift matters. Unity is not uniformity, but a Spirit-empowered harmony of purpose, dignity, and mutual service.


Your Challenge

Take time this week to examine your heart:


• Am I living as if men and women are equal partners in God’s Kingdom?
• Have I undervalued someone’s voice or gifts based on gender?
• Am I encouraging others to serve, lead, and reflect God’s image—regardless of role or background?

Let’s model God’s design by affirming one another, walking in unity, and using our gifts to reflect His character in the world.


Tying It to Our Worldview


The Clarity series helps us build a biblical lens for life:

Spiritual warfare teaches us to stand firm in Christ.
The Bible grounds us in truth.
Science and faith are complementary tools for understanding God’s world.
Politics remind us of our allegiance to King Jesus.
The End Times call us to live faithfully.
Morality shapes our witness.

Now, gender calls us to reflect God’s design through Spirit-empowered partnership.


Closing Prayer

• Thank You, God, for creating both men and women in Your image.
• Give us wisdom to honor Your design and partner in Your mission.
• Shape us, Holy Spirit, to reflect Your love and unity in the church and the world.

If you have questions or feel God calling you to take a step of faith, please reach out. I want to encourage you to create places where men and women walk side by side—reflecting the glory of our King.

Thursday, April 3, 2025

In God’s Image: Why Women Belong in Pastoral Ministry



It is difficult to imagine what the world was like before sin came and corrupted God’s good Creation. This good Creation was a world where God’s first word to humanity wasn’t division but harmony. In that world, leadership wasn’t a man’s prize to claim but a shared gift to use in taming, shaping, and stewarding God’s good Creation. That’s the world of Genesis 1—a world too many churches, theologians, and teachers have buried under layers of tradition and misread verses.

Today, in most conservative evangelical churches, women can’t stand in the pulpit and preach, offer counsel and instruction to both men and women, or make decisions about the direction of the church family. In this discussion, the same handful of Scriptures are cited, or centuries of male dominance are held up as THE example of how things should be.

The Bible provides a bolder picture of male/female relationships and female leadership among God’s people. This picture is rooted in God’s creation of humanity, traced through prophets like Deborah and Huldah, and grows in the early church with women like Phoebe.

It is my belief that women belong in pastoral ministry—not as a modern compromise or the church going woke, but as God’s design from the beginning.

I want to briefly outline this truth as we see it in Scripture. This isn’t a rigorous defense of women in pastoral ministry; it’s a brief outline that allows me to share the thoughts swirling around in my mind.

Created to Co-Rule: Genesis 1:26-28

On page 1 of the Bible, we read that God declared:“Let us make man in our image, according to our likeness. They will rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, the livestock, the whole earth, and the creatures that crawl on the earth” (Genesis 1:26, CSB). Then, “God created man in his own image; he created him in the image of God; he created them male and female” (v. 27). And what was their responsibility? “God blessed them, and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth, and subdue it. Rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, and every creature that crawls on the earth’” (v. 28).

Take a moment and meditate on what happened.

God doesn’t whisper this to Adam alone, leaving Eve as an afterthought. He blesses them—male and female—crafted equally in His image, tasked together to rule. God’s mandate to rule over Creation is given to both men and women as part of their identity. Both reflect God’s image and demonstrate His character—love, creativity, wisdom, authority—and both are given authority over creation. There’s no hierarchy here in God’s original design, no “he leads, she follows.” It’s co-rulership, pure and simple, a partnership mirroring the Trinity’s unity.

Then comes Genesis 3. Sin fractures this harmony, and “he will rule over you” (v. 16) falls like a shadow—a curse, not a calling. This is a different Hebrew word than the one used in Genesis 1:26 and 28. It’s the same word used in Genesis 1:18, explaining that the Sun and Moon rule over the day and night—the light of the Sun overpowering the darkness to make it day. That’s the key idea in Genesis 3:16: overpowering and domination. Male dominance isn’t God’s design; it’s the consequence of the Fall.

Genesis 3:16 can be translated a couple of ways. The Christian Standard Bible renders it: “Your desire will be for your husband, yet he will rule over you,” suggesting women desire a marriage relationship, but men hold the power. The New Living Translation offers: “And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you,” implying a more antagonistic dynamic. 

I prefer the first option because I believe the biblical witness is one of men dominating women for their purposes rather than women rebelling against their husbands’ authority. Abraham and Hagar, Judah and Tamar, David and Bathsheba—these are examples of men taking advantage of women for their own selfish ends. Therefore, I believe the hierarchy model is more a product of the Fall and the Curse than God’s original design.

So it’s no surprise when Jesus comes and elevates the status of women—having women disciples and instructing them to be the first to carry the news of the resurrection. With that in mind, the Apostle Paul wrote these counter-cultural words: “There is no Jew or Greek, slave or free, male and female; since you are all one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28, CSB). Redemption restores Genesis 1’s vision—equality, not subjugation. If God entrusted women to co-rule the earth, why not co-lead His church and New Creation? To say otherwise is to cling to the Fall, not the Gospel.

Prophets of God: Deborah and Huldah

Now let’s travel through Israel’s history, where Genesis 1’s seed of co-rulership sprouts into action. Meet Deborah, a prophetess and judge in Judges 4-5, around 1200 BC. She didn’t just pray quietly in a corner—she led a nation. She was a Judge over Israel (Judges 4:5), leading not only the women but also the men. As a prophetess, she spoke God’s word with authority. When Canaan’s King Jabin oppressed Israel with 900 iron chariots, Deborah summoned Barak, the military commander, and delivered a divine directive:
She summoned Barak son of Abinoam from Kedesh in Naphtali and said to him, “Hasn’t the LORD, the God of Israel, commanded you, ‘Go, deploy the troops on Mount Tabor, and take with you ten thousand men from the Naphtalites and Zebulunites? Then I will lure Sisera commander of Jabin’s army, his chariots, and his infantry at the Wadi Kishon to fight against you, and I will hand him over to you’” (Judges 4:6-7, CSB).

Barak hesitated, begging her to join him. She did, prophesying a woman would claim the victory—and Jael did, driving a tent peg through Sisera’s skull (Judges 4:21). The result? Forty years of peace (Judges 5:31). Deborah’s song of triumph (Judges 5) still echoes, a testament to her leadership.


Was Deborah a fluke? No, she’s an example of the reality that women have a place in leadership among God’s people.

Then there’s Huldah, centuries later, around 622 BC. King Josiah’s men unearthed the lost Book of the Law in the temple—a crisis moment for Judah. Who did they seek? Not the famous prophets Jeremiah or Zephaniah, but Huldah, a prophetess (2 Kings 22:14). She lived in Jerusalem’s Second District, and when the high priest Hilkiah and royal officials knocked, she didn’t hide. She declared God’s judgment on Judah’s idolatry and mercy for Josiah’s repentance (2 Kings 22:15-20). Her words sparked a national revival, one of the Old Testament’s high points.

These women—Deborah and Huldah—weren’t sideline helpers. They taught God’s word, judged, and led God’s people, men included, with divine authority. Even in the Old Testament, a glimpse of Genesis 1’s co-rulership shines through.


Phoebe and Romans 16: The Early Church’s Witness

Jumping to the New Testament, the Spirit breathes Genesis 1’s equality into the church. Romans 16 is a treasure trove—a list of ministry giants, and women stand tall. Leading the pack is Phoebe. Paul writes, 
“I commend to you our sister Phoebe, who is a servant of the church in Cenchreae. So you should welcome her in the Lord in a manner worthy of the saints and assist her in whatever matter she may require your help. For indeed she has been a benefactor of many—and of me also” (Romans 16:1-2, CSB).

Let’s take a quick look at what’s going on here. “Deacon” (diakonos) isn’t a throwaway title. Paul uses it for himself (1 Corinthians 3:5), for Timothy (1 Timothy 4:6), and for deacons in Acts who preached and served (Acts 6:8-10). Phoebe was a minister in Cenchreae, Corinth’s eastern port—a hub of trade and religions. According to Craig Keener (IVP Bible Background Commentary: New Testament), the word “deacon” “probably corresponds to the chazan of the synagogue, who was in charge of the building.” She likely taught, cared for the poor, and served as a leader in the church that met at her house. “Benefactor” (prostatis) goes further—it means patron or protector, a role of influence. There’s a good chance she funded the church, hosted it, and housed Paul during his Corinthian mission. But her story doesn’t stop there.

Many scholars agree Phoebe carried Romans—Paul’s longest, deepest letter—to Rome, a 600-mile sea journey from Corinth. That’s a huge undertaking. Letters then weren’t just dropped off; couriers read and explained them. Imagine Phoebe standing before Rome’s scattered house churches, unrolling the scroll. She reads, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23), teaching about justification by faith, the Spirit’s power (Romans 8), and the hope for Jew and Gentile. She was the first preacher to explain the theologically dense book of Romans, shaping a church that would shape the world.

Romans 16 doesn’t stop with her. Priscilla, often named before Aquila, taught Apollos, a gifted preacher, “the way of God more accurately” (Acts 18:26)—her theological understanding on display. Junia, with Andronicus, was “outstanding among the apostles” (Romans 16:7), likely planting churches and facing prison with Paul. Mary “worked very hard” (v. 6), Tryphena and Tryphosa “worked hard in the Lord” (v. 12), Persis too (v. 12)—the same Greek word (kopiƍ) Paul uses for his own ministry work. These women weren’t fetching water, making coffee, or just teaching kids; they were building the church, living out Genesis 1’s co-rulership in Christ’s body.

Facing the Critics

Skeptics of this egalitarian view wave 1 Timothy 2:12—“I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man”—like a trump card, as if it explains away all that God has been doing. But context is king. Ephesus, where Timothy ministered, was a hotbed of false teaching (1 Timothy 1:3-7), possibly from uneducated women stirring trouble. Paul’s rule addressed a local problem, not a timeless ban—how else do we square it with Phoebe preaching Romans or Priscilla teaching Apollos?

Then there’s 1 Corinthians 14:34-35—“Women should remain silent in the churches.” Yet 1 Corinthians 11:5 assumes women pray and prophesy in worship. Again, it’s about curbing chaos, not silencing gifts. Now, it’s true tradition later locked women out, but Scripture’s arc—from Genesis to Romans—tells a freer story.

What about male headship in marriage (Ephesians 5:22-23)? This section is about what mutual submission looks like (Ephesians 5:21). In ancient household codes, the husband/father’s authority was assumed, not instructed—yet here, Paul explains God’s expectations for husbands, calling them to submit too. While “Husbands, love your wives” isn’t a surprising command to us, it was radical then; marriage was about family, not love. Just as Paul’s instructions to slave owners (Ephesians 6:9) helped pave the way for seeing slavery as evil, his call for husbands to love their wives should help restore equality in marriage. 

Genesis 1’s equality is the proper lens to view Scripture, not the Fall’s distortions.

Why It Matters Today

God doesn’t waste people’s talents. Women pastors bring preaching that stirs hearts, counseling that heals wounds, and leadership that reflects His image—just as Deborah, Huldah, and Phoebe did. They speak to half the church—women—with a voice men can’t replicate, tackling issues like abuse or motherhood with lived insight. In a culture crying for justice, their presence helps show the Gospel’s continued relevance.

I’m part of the Free Methodist Church, founded in 1860 by B.T. Roberts (along with his wife Ellen Stowe Roberts), rooted in Genesis 1’s equality and a passion for holiness. Women like Ida Gage and Blanche Stamp served as pastors, planting churches and spreading revival across America. Catherine Booth co-founded the Salvation Army, preaching salvation and service. Why stop that now? A church with women pastors isn’t weaker—it’s fuller, truer to God’s design.

A Call to the Church

Genesis 1:26-28 hands men and women the same crown—co-rulers in God’s world. Deborah used it, judging Israel with God’s voice. Huldah utilized it, sparking revival with His word. Phoebe carried it, delivering Romans to shape the faith. These aren’t side notes; they’re God’s declaration, shouting that women are able to lead His people. The Spirit falls on “sons and daughters” alike (Acts 2:17), and gifts don’t wear gender tags (1 Corinthians 12:7). So why do we make such a big deal about gender when it comes to church leadership? 

We need to stop quenching the Spirit, stop silencing half His servants. Picture a church where Deborah’s courage, Huldah’s wisdom, and Phoebe’s perseverance lead us to Christ. That’s not a dream—it’s God’s plan from Eden. Will we build it, or keep boxing out His daughters?

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