Known and Loved: Embracing the God Who Sees Us

Have you ever ached to be truly known? Not the polished version you show the world—the forced smiles and small talk—but the raw, unfiltered you, with all your quirks, fears, and unspoken dreams? I know I have. When I share a piece of my heart with someone, what I’m really longing for isn’t just to be heard, but to be accepted—fully, as I am.

That deep, universal hunger finds its answer in Psalm 139. Let’s explore this breathtaking passage and discover a God who knows us inside out—and loves us beyond imagination.

The God Who Searches Us
“You have searched me, Lord, and you know me.” – Psalm 139:1

Right away, the Psalmist drops a bombshell: God doesn’t just notice us—He pursues us. He knows my every move—the quiet mornings with coffee in hand, the restless pacing over a tough call, even the words I’ll write before they form. It’s not a distant glance; it’s an active, tender gaze, like a parent watching their child with quiet joy.

Sometimes, that intimacy unnerves me—God seeing every flaw, every doubt. But the Psalmist calls it “wonderful” (v. 6). Why? Because this isn’t a judge keeping score; it’s a Father weaving a love story through every step of our lives—mine and yours.

The God Who Stays
“Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?” – Psalm 139:7

There’s no escaping God. Soar to the heavens? He’s there. Plummet to the depths? He’s waiting. Bury myself in doubt’s shadows? Even there, “the darkness is not dark to you” (v. 12).

This isn’t a pursuit to trap us—it’s a promise to hold us. I’ve felt loneliness so heavy it pinned me down, but Psalm 139 whispers: You’re never alone. His presence doesn’t just linger; it pierces our gloom with light. Wherever you are right now—on a peak or in a pit—He’s right there with you.

The God Who Crafts Us
“You knit me together in my mother’s womb… I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” – Psalm 139:13–14

This stops me cold. Imagine God as a master artisan, shaping you with care—your laugh, your passions, even the flaws you’d erase. He mapped out your days before your first breath and declared, This is good.

I don’t always feel “wonderful”—mirrors and comparisons can steal that truth. But our worth isn’t fragile; it’s forged by our Creator. You’re no accident or rough sketch—you’re a masterpiece, intentional and irreplaceable.

The God Who Welcomes Us
“Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.” – Psalm 139:23

Here’s the gut punch: the Psalmist doesn’t just marvel at God’s knowledge—he begs for more. That’s bold. It’s laying bare the mess—the buried hurts, the dodged fears—and saying, I trust You with it.

Why dare that? Because God’s love is a safe harbor, not a courtroom. He’s not here to condemn; He’s here to mend. So I’ve been asking: What’s hiding in my heart? What’s in yours? His love chases out fear, making room for us to be real.

The God Who Treasures Us
“How precious to me are your thoughts, God! … Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand.” – Psalm 139:17–18

Pause and breathe that in. God’s thoughts about you aren’t harsh or fleeting—they’re precious, endless, drenched in love. This isn’t a passing fondness; it’s an unshakable vow.

When we hand Him our broken pieces, we don’t just get grace—we get a Father who delights in us, no strings attached.

Living Known and Loved
So where does this leave us?

Psalm 139 says you’re known—every breath, every stumble. You’re never alone, even in the blackest night. You’re crafted with purpose, called wonderful. And you’re invited into a love that changes everything.

You—yes, you, right now—are seen and cherished by the Creator of all things, not for what you’ve earned, but for who He is.

Take a moment today. Sit with that. Ask God to search your heart—what’s He stirring? A wound to heal? A fear to release? Trust Him with it. Let His love redefine how you see yourself and how you step into the world.

Father, thank You for knowing us completely and loving us fiercely. Search us, Lord—reveal Your heart. Give us courage to rest in Your love and live as Yours. Amen.

The Power of Prayer in a Hustle-Driven World

In today’s relentless rush, life feels like a treadmill set to sprint. We chase success, juggle endless responsibilities, and measure our worth by what we achieve. Work, family, and social demands pull us in every direction, and in this storm of hustle, one simple practice often slips away: prayer.

R. A. Torrey, in his classic work The Power of Prayer, saw this coming. “We do not live in a praying age,” he wrote. “We live in an age of hustle and bustle, of man’s efforts and man’s determination, of man’s confidence in himself and in his own power to achieve things.” He described a world driven by human machinery and ambition—a world where trusting God’s power feels like a relic. If anything, his words hit harder now, as our culture doubles down on self-reliance.

So why does prayer still matter? It’s not a magic fix or a wishlist for God to rubber-stamp. Prayer is a lifeline—a moment of raw connection where we lay down our pride and seek divine wisdom. When we pause to pray, we admit we don’t have it all figured out. We invite God to guide us through life’s chaos, trusting His perspective over our plans.

But prayer isn’t just personal. It’s a bridge to others. When we lift up a friend in crisis, a family member in need, or even a stranger we’ll never meet, we step outside ourselves. We carry their burdens to God, asking for His grace to touch their lives. In a me-first world, this act of intercession is quietly radical—a rebellion against selfishness dressed up as love.

Our society celebrates the grind: the promotions, the accolades, the packed schedules. Prayer flips that script. It whispers that true worth isn’t in what we do, but in who we are—children of God, called to faith and compassion. When we stop to pray, we trade the noise of ambition for something eternal. We realign with what lasts: our bond with God and the people He’s placed around us.

Torrey’s warning doesn’t have to be our story. We can choose differently. By weaving prayer into our days—whether in a quiet morning moment or a whispered plea amid the storm—we tap into God’s strength. We find peace for ourselves and pour it out for others. In an age that idolizes effort, prayer is our defiance: a reminder that real power doesn’t come from us, but from Him.

So let’s reclaim it. Let’s step off the treadmill, look beyond the grind, and rediscover the stillness where God waits. In prayer, we don’t just find answers—we find purpose. And that’s a victory no hustle can touch.

Transformed by Grace: The Power of God’s Grace

In a world increasingly driven by self-interest, where kindness and humility often take a backseat, God’s grace stands as a transformative force, calling us to a higher standard of living. In his 2023 article, “How America Got Mean,” David Brooks observes a troubling shift in American culture, what he calls the “de-moralization” of society. He cites a 2012 study showing that words tied to virtue—like bravery (down 65%), gratitude (58%), and humbleness (55%)—have faded from books over the 20th century. Meanwhile, life goals have shifted: in 1967, 85% of college students sought a “meaningful philosophy of life,” but by 2015, 82% prioritized wealth. This change in motivation shapes behavior. If our aim is fame or riches, we may justify harming or ignoring others to get ahead. But as followers of Jesus, our motivation is rooted in faith and duty, shaped by the transformative power of God’s grace, which calls us to live differently—reflecting the character of our King.

The Context of Titus

Our series on the book of Titus has emphasized the importance of right living for the Christians in Crete, a Mediterranean island known for its moral laxity (Titus 1:12). Written around AD 62–64, after Paul’s first Roman imprisonment, this letter was sent to Titus, Paul’s apostolic delegate, to guide the young churches in a challenging mission field. Crete’s diverse population of Jews and Gentiles, combined with the influence of false teachers, threatened the faith of new believers. Paul’s instructions were clear: appoint blameless leaders (1:5-9) who could teach sound doctrine and confront false teachings (1:10-16). Right living, Paul stresses, flows from right teaching, and at the heart of this teaching is the transformative grace of God, revealed through Jesus Christ. This grace empowers believers to represent King Jesus well in a world that desperately needs to see His love.

The Power of God’s Grace (Titus 2:11-15)

In Titus 2:11-15, Paul unpacks five key truths about God’s grace, showing how it reshapes our lives and motivates us to live for His Kingdom.

1. Grace Revealed for All (v. 11)
   God’s grace has appeared to all people through Jesus. For Gentiles in Crete, grace resembled “royal compassion”—a king or deity providing what people couldn’t achieve on their own. For Jews, it echoed God’s covenant love, freely given and unearned. This grace fulfills God’s promise to Abraham in Genesis 12, extending His blessing to all nations, not just Israel. It’s a universal gift, laying the foundation for evangelism, as it invites everyone—regardless of background—to experience God’s love and salvation.
2. Grace Teaches Godly Living (v. 12)
   Grace is more than a gift; it’s a teacher. It instructs us to reject anti-God living—behaviors that fail to reflect God’s character—and worldly desires that align with the world’s values rather than God’s. Instead, grace empowers us to live with self-control, righteousness, and godliness, even in a world marked by evil. By relying on the Holy Spirit, we overcome fleshly desires and reflect God’s gracious, loving character. This enables us to live respectably, using our gifts to build God’s Kingdom.
3. Hope in Christ’s Return (v. 13)
   Grace motivates us to live for King Jesus because of the hope of His return. Described as “our great God and Savior,” Jesus will come again to bring justice, restore creation, and rescue His people. This hope fuels patience, endurance, and passion for Kingdom work. We strive to be ready—living rightly—when He appears, eager to reflect His character in all we do.
4. Redemption and Purification (v. 14)
   The cost of this grace was immense: Jesus freely gave His life to redeem us from slavery to sin and purify us from its defilement. In the Old Testament, sin rendered people unworthy to be part of God’s family, but Jesus’ sacrifice cleanses us, making us worthy to be His people. God’s plan from the beginning was to have a people fully committed to Him, partnering in His mission to rule over His good creation.
5. Teach with Authority (v. 15)
   Paul charges Titus to teach these truths with authority, encouraging believers to follow Jesus and correcting wrong beliefs or behaviors that dishonor Him. When Titus lives and teaches faithfully (vv. 7-8), his ministry is above reproach. We, too, are called to live out these truths, holding one another accountable to represent Jesus well in our words and actions.

How Does This Apply to Us?

First, immerse yourself in God’s Word. Titus 2:11-15 shows that understanding grace—seen in Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection—and living with hope for His return equips us to say “no” to sin and “yes” to righteousness. We’ve been redeemed and cleansed to be God’s people. Regularly studying Scripture and meditating on these truths shapes our character and actions. Don’t neglect the Bible—it’s the foundation for a life transformed by grace.

Second, embrace your identity. Individually, you are saved by grace, a reminder of God’s personal love for you and your value as His image-bearer. Collectively, we are God’s people, tasked with representing Him well. This identity gives us purpose: to live in a way that reflects His character and advances His Kingdom, showing a watching world the power of His grace.

Third, live with purpose. Grace doesn’t just save us; it calls us to action. We’re to be zealous for good works—acts of love, service, and justice that point others to Jesus. Whether it’s forgiving a wrong, helping a neighbor, or standing firm against temptation, our actions should flow from the grace we’ve received.

Living Transformed by Grace

Paul’s message in Titus 2:11-15 is a call to action: God’s grace, revealed through Jesus, offers salvation and teaches us to live righteously. It’s not enough to believe the right truths—our beliefs must shape our lives. Grace transforms us into God’s people, eager to do good works and await Christ’s return with hope.

Challenge: This week, live as someone transformed by grace. Begin each day thanking God for His unearned gift of salvation. Take one practical step to reflect that grace—perhaps forgiving someone, serving your community, or resisting a temptation. Study God’s Word daily to root yourself in your identity in Christ, and let that truth guide your actions. As God’s people, let’s be zealous for good works, showing the world the power of His grace.

Final Thought: Theologian Lewis Smedes beautifully captures the wonder of grace: “Grace is amazing because it works against the grain of common sense. Hard-nosed common sense will tell you that you are too wrong to meet the standards of a holy God; pardoning grace tells you that it’s all right in spite of so much in you that is wrong… Grace promises that you can trust God to have a better tomorrow for you than the day you have made for yourself.” Grace defies logic, yet it’s the catalyst for life change, motivating us to live for God’s glory.

Prayer:
Lord, thank You for Your amazing grace—Your love, forgiveness, and provision through Jesus. Empower us by Your Spirit to live as Your people, reflecting Your character in all we do. Help us study Your Word, embrace our identity in Christ, and be zealous for good works. May our lives show the world the transformative power of Your grace. Amen.

Sunday Prayer: Grace-Fueled Devotion

Based on Titus 2:11–14

Gracious God,

Thank You for the gift of Your grace, which has appeared to all, bringing salvation and hope into our broken world. We praise You for the kindness that reached us in our sin and called us into Your marvelous light.

Lord, train our hearts by that same grace. Teach us to say “no” to the ungodliness that tugs at our souls and to the worldly passions that promise much but deliver emptiness. Shape in us a holy hunger for righteousness, a longing to live upright and self-controlled lives as we wait for our blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Jesus, You gave Yourself to redeem us, to purify a people who are Yours—zealous for good works and eager to reflect Your love in the world. Let that truth stir us today. Let it move us to live not for ourselves, but for You who died and rose again for us.

As we walk through this day, may Your grace be our guide, Your Spirit be our strength, and Your coming be our hope. Make us a people who shine with the light of Your redemption in a dark and desperate world.

In the name of Jesus,

Amen.

Do You Believe God Is a Good Father?

It’s easy to answer “yes” when someone asks if you believe God is a good Father. It’s the “right” answer, after all. 

But if I’m honest, my life often tells a different story. 

Too often, I it feels like God is opposed to my desires—as if He is detached or uninterested in my well-being.

John Eldredge wrote in The Way of the Wild Heart:

“You are the son of a kind, strong, and engaged Father, a Father wise enough to guide you in the Way, generous enough to provide for your journey, offering to walk with you every step.

This is perhaps the hardest thing for us to believe—really believe, down deep in our hearts, so that it changes us forever, changes the way we approach each day.”

Eldredge’s words remind me of a truth that I forget: God is my Heavenly Father. 

I have no problem with seeing God as Creator or King, but I often struggle to see Him as Father. I think this is why it is hard for me to trust that God has my best interests at heart. 

What ends up happening, since I don’t trust God to do what is right,  is I slip into believing that I have to make life work on my own—that my happiness depends entirely on me. This reality ultimately leads to a life of disappointment because I don’t have what it takes to create a life that I truly want to live.

So how do we trust God to do the right thing? How can we learn to see Him as the loving Father He truly is?

Two Ways to Deepen Our Trust in God as Father

1. Memorize Scripture About God as Our Father

The Bible repeatedly describes God as our Father, and it’s no coincidence that Jesus often used this imagery when he talked about God. Jesus knew how difficult it would be for us to grasp the concept of God as a loving and engaged father.

One passage that speaks to this is Luke 11:11-13:

“What father among you, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead of a fish? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, although you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”

The only way I know to get this truth into our hearts is to turn to Scripture and meditate on these passages that emphasize God’s goodness. The more we meditate on these verses the more likely they will be implanted into our hearts.

2. Reflect on the Blessings in Your Life

It’s easy to take God’s blessings for granted, to believe that God owes me the good things of life. What happens, when things don’t go the way I want, leads me to question His goodness—and even His presence in my life.

I believe taking time to “count our blessings” can reframe our perspective. It has worked on in my life. Simply taking time to write down 3 or 4 blessings each day has changed my perspective on life. When we reflect on how God has worked in our lives, we’re reminded of His faithfulness.

It is also important to remember that God’s greatest blessings aren’t tied to this life. When we can see the ways He has blessed our lives now, this gives us confidence that He will bless us in the future. God’s ultimate plan is for eternity, and He uses our current experiences to prepare us for the joys of heaven. Sometimes, this preparation means letting go of our own dreams to embrace His purpose for our lives.

Trusting God as Our Heavenly Father

Learning to trust God as our Father isn’t easy, but it’s essential to truly follow Jesus. If we can’t trust God, who can we trust?

God is kind, strong, and engaged. He is guiding us, providing for us, and walking with us every step of the way. I pray that we open our hearts to believe this truth—not just intellectually, but deeply and fully in our hearts, so that it changes the way we live.

Take a moment today to reflect on God’s love and goodness. He is a good Father—and He desires what is best for you.